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Get Started with Spirit

9/20/2024

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People often tell me that they feel drawn to explore spirit work, but they have no idea where to start. Go with your gut! If you feel drawn to a particular modality, look into it. There is no one right answer. When I first started really exploring the spirit world, I took every class, joined every meditation, attended every fair and read every book that interested me. I even went to a spiritualist church once or twice.  I had no idea where the path of spirituality would take me, but I was having fun. 

If you are looking for something concrete, you could try starting with reiki, a healing touch or EFT tapping session or course. Explore metaphysical stores and ask lots of questions. Usually in this line of work, I find people are more than willing to share their expertise. Practitioners do this work because it is their soul work and they truly enjoy it. I have never heard of someone I know saying that they do this healing, spiritual work to get rich quick. Much like being a teacher, nurse or clergyman, you probably will not get rich. We do it to help people. 

There used to be many more brick and mortar centers around that I could visit. Now many practitioners work online. Searching online is good as you can quickly narrow down what your interests are and there are many free resources, meditations, and reference materials to be found. The benefit to a local center is that you can find a group to share experiences with and bond with in person. Either way, it’s refreshing to have access to a community of like minded people. You will soon find that your ideas are not actually that strange. There will be a lot of, “OMG! You thought that too?” Many years ago, my journey started in earnest when I stumbled across a healing center in my hometown. They were advertising a table tipping event that night. I had no idea what that meant, but I was in! 

Table tipping was especially fascinating. It is a form of physical mediumship. People gently rest the tips of their fingers on the edge of a round pedestal table and receive messages when the table taps them out. The table literally moves. I could not believe this phenomenon. So I obviously did what any sane person would do. I waited until everyone got up halfway through the session to stretch, looked around to be sure no one was watching, and I ran my hands all along the table. Nothing. Not a string anywhere. Hmmm I thought. Someone was probably using their fingertips to push the table hard. I tried to lift the table. It was pretty heavy. Too heavy for someone to manipulate undetected with just their fingertips. Sigh. Maybe it’s real. After a short break everyone came back. I resumed my position, fingers lightly on the edge of the table. Strangely, my name was tapped out! My great-grandmother had arrived with her name, the correct spelling of my name (the name on my nametag was spelled incorrectly and I did not bother to tell the facilitator), and messages. No one at the table tipping session knew me, nonetheless my great-grandmother! I was hooked! 

Pure intentions are a must when working with spirit. You only want to work with the highest and best energies. Ask yourself, “Why do I want to do this work?” If the answer is because you feel ready and open or want to help others heal, that’s a good sign. If you are looking for peace, calm or reassurance that we are protected by the angelic realm and our loved ones in spirit, good again. If any of your answers involve fame, money or gaining inside information aka secrets, you will be sorely disappointed. Spirits of the highest and best order will not be interested in working with those associated with greed, self-serving purposes or any other nefarious activities. I am sure you are not that type of person though, because honestly, you would not be interested in this blog if you were and you definitely would not have read this far. 

You don’t need to know exactly where you are going with spirit or what will happen. Just go with the flow. If you are in the flow, things come on your path at the just right time. Things feel natural and “easy.” When you continue to run into roadblocks, challenges, extremely difficult people, etc. you are probably no longer on the right path. Maybe a certain direction used to be the right path for you, but things change. It is likely you mastered whatever lessons awaited you there and it is time to move on. Rest assured, you are in good company. Lots of people are feeling drawn to make changes in their lives right now. That includes professions, personal relationships, hobbies, you name it! Your destiny is whatever feels right at this time. Of course, spirit would never tell you to hurt yourself or anyone else! So listen to your gut and explore what makes you feel curious and excited. 

It is important that people are mindful of protecting themselves prior to engaging in spirit work. They also need to understand the materials they are using and how to properly handle them. You would not let someone use a table saw alone if they had never had any instruction. That would be dangerous. Items used for spiritual purposes must also be treated like tools, not toys. Many people have probably had or heard about an unsettling experience someone has had with a Ouija board. Ouija boards are not “bad” in and of themselves. They are tools for spirit communication. Tools need to be respected, treated with care and used with positive intentions. Unfortunately Ouija boards were treated as a party game by adolescents for many years (myself included). Without protection in place, those children were basically opening the door for any and every energy to stroll through. You would not go to bed at night, unlock the front door, leave all the lights on and post a sign outside that says, “Come on in and help yourself!” That is basically what people are doing when they try spirit communication without protection in place. Your soul is your inner house. Protect it. I strongly advise only working with materials for spirit communication or healing work if you are with a person who has been properly trained or have been trained by a reputable practitioner yourself. At the very least, the simplest thing you can do to protect yourself is say, “Archangel Michael, protect me now!” That can be done anytime you feel in need of protection, in your head or aloud. 

Truth be told, I still don’t know where the path of spirituality will take me in the future. When I feel inspired, I pay attention and act accordingly. Right now, spirit gifts me a different class each month which is perfect for beginners to attend. They give me ideas for blogs and bring the just right people on my path. I feel best when doing spirit work and that is how I know it is right for me. I’ll continue to go with the flow. It’s not for everyone, and I totally respect that. But if you are ready, the journey awaits! 

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Mediumship FAQ

9/19/2024

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How do you connect with spirit? 
Humans live in a very dense, physical world. The spirit world is much lighter, operating at a higher vibration. In order to connect and communicate, I have to raise my energy up with pure intentions and spirit has to bring their energy down. We basically meet in the middle of the earth plane and the spirit world. I liken it to a hummingbird at a feeder. It takes an incredible amount of energy for a hummingbird to hover at a feeder and do all of that flying. It takes an incredible amount of energy for spirit to bring their energy down and for me to bring my energy up in order to maintain a connection. The hummingbird can not maintain that connection forever, and neither can a medium. The hope is that we can connect long enough for spirit to impart their wisdom. 

Who from the spirit world is communicating? 
Guardian angels who are thought to have not walked the earth. They will not tell you what you should or should not do. They give options and choices along the way. 
Spirit guides who are thought to have walked the earth and do know what it is like to live in this very dense, physical world we are in. They will share their opinion! Your loved ones who have passed fit in this category, although you can of course consider them guardian angels if that brings you comfort or peace. 

Is this safe?  
It is safe to practice/ participate in mediumship sessions if you have pure intentions and are trained or working with or under the guidance of a trained medium. Archangel Michael protects me and all of my clients with his sword of light. All unuseful energy is released and we are filled with the love and light of the Holy Spirit. Only messages for a person’s highest and best are allowed to pass through. Archangel Michael doesn’t play around! 

How do sessions begin? 
Sessions begin with a brief opening prayer. I ask for protection of the highest order, for our heart energies to connect and for loved ones in spirit who wish to communicate to step forward. 

How are sessions closed?
Sessions end with a brief closing prayer of gratitude for the protection and for the spirits and messages that came through. 

How are you receiving information?
Typically I use 3 of the “clairs" during readings. 

Claircognizance- clear knowing
Ideas/ information pops into my head. I will just know something. Spirit conveys messages very quickly in this way.

Clairsentience- clear feeling
I will feel how a client or a loved one on the other side feels. I might feel uncomfortable, excited, joy, sadness, anxiety, pain, peace, etc. Emotions and physical sensations come through. 

Clairvoyance- clear seeing
Images, scenes, symbols, etc appear in my third eye chakra. 
 
Can you guarantee a connection with my loved one? 
No. No one can guarantee a connection with your loved one, nevermind the particular one you would like to communicate with. Humans are not the boss of spirit. I can not make your dad get on the horn with me in life, and I can not make him speak with me after his passing. We all have free will. Another factor is that spirit might not find me to be their cup of tea. (Hard to believe, but it’s true!) Just like in life, people are drawn to certain folks, certain personalities. This translates to the spirit world too.  

What type of messages come through? 
Spirit’s job is to bring messages for your highest and best. That means what you need. Spirit is not here to just bring a client whatever they want to hear. Messages will help the person shine their light at this point in their life. If a message would hinder a person’s progress in this lifetime, that information will not be conveyed. 

Example: You are going to an outdoor concert and the weather looks fine. In the middle of the set a crazy thunderstorm appears and people start running for cover. You end up under a tent with a bunch of random people. You recognize a childhood friend you had lost touch with 30 years ago and pick up right where you left off. 

Well, if you knew there would be bad weather, you might have declined to go. Therefore you never would have rekindled that relationship. It was meant for you to both be in the same place at the same time. Spirit will go to great lengths to make sure people who are meant to be together in this lifetime make a connection. That is why spirit can not reveal all. 

If spirit is so smart, what are tonight’s winning lottery numbers? 
Don’t we all want to know?! Remember, spirit will not reveal things that will hinder a person’s progress in this lifetime. Some people dream of the winning lottery numbers, play them, and win! It was meant to be. Having that money was a part of their path, their destiny in this lifetime. Maybe they are learning to navigate relationships or how to be responsible with resources. Winning that money will help them learn the lessons that they came here to get clear on. If landing a windfall of money will hinder your progress, it’s not happening. 

What signs and symbols does spirit communicate with? 
Spirit is ingenious and continues to blow me away! A lot of times, reading for people is like playing charades or Pictionary. They use a lot of metaphors, different vocabulary and visual symbols. My job is to tell what I receive, not necessarily try to decode. Usually when sitting across from a client, an energy appearing on the client’s right hand side (my left) that indicates a member of the paternal side. Spirits appearing on the left (my right) indicate a spirit associated with the maternal side. Spirit energy in front of the client is usually a living person’s energy. Energy directly behind the client can indicate a friend of the family. Of course, just like in life, we don’t all follow the “rules” and sometimes the spirit is a bit confused about where they go. Therefore I can not always depend on those positions to tell the whole story. 

If my loved one doesn’t communicate, then what happens during my session? 
In my experience, spirit in general always has something to say. You might receive messages from angels, spirit guides, or someone you hadn’t even considered! Sometimes the energy of people’s living loved ones comes through. For example, I once had a client whose mother came through. The mother validated who she was by giving a physical description of herself and shared her medical diagnosis. The message was a lot about how she loves her daughter, she is so proud of her and how much she loves having the daughter in her life. The mother is still alive and the client said that she believes those things but that her mother would never say that to her in life. I believe that is why her energy stepped forward to convey that to the daughter. Some of your energy remains in the spirit world, always. We do not take 100% of our energy into each lifetime. That way we always have a connection to the spirit world and that is how our soul can communicate even when we are alive on earth. 

What happens if a person is adopted? Who is their family? 
Spirit operates via energy, not blood. If a person is part of your family, they are considered your family regardless of the parentage here on earth. In that same vein, step-children are considered children, no less than anyone’s biological child in the eyes of spirit. 

What types of validations does spirit bring? 
I usually get a lot of personalities, body parts, significant items or indications of how the person passed. If someone was a real jokester or character in life, they seem to like working with my energy. Lots of tough cookies and sweethearts come through as well. Your loved ones can show themselves how they felt best in this lifetime or how they would like to be portrayed. Your grandma might come through as her 25 year old self, even though she was 80 when she passed. Someone overweight much of their life might portray themself as a fit football player aka how they felt best which was in their teen years. 

Body parts I am shown usually have significance as they are particular to the person or unusual. Some include certain wisps of hair and the color, lots of hands and feet, arthritic body parts, certain markings, tattoos, height, body structure, teeth, eye color, etc. One time I described what a woman’s father looked like as far as hair, body type, a certain plaid shirt, personality, etc. When the session was complete, the woman took a photo out of her purse. It was an image of her dad wearing the exact shirt described! I later found out that she was so stunned (as a skeptic) that she shook all the way down the staircase after her session.  

Items I have been shown include specific lockets, lots of watches, shoes, doilies, bureaus, favorite chairs/couches, vehicles, yards, land, dust, work clothes, work environments, etc. During one session a woman pulled the exact locket described out of her pocket. We were both stunned. That usually does not happen. Usually I will be shown an item such as a locket in general and it is a symbol for a locket the person had, but it’s not usually the exact description. 

Spirit can share how they passed. I might feel short of breath, a pain in my side, a headache or see swirling in the blood for something that affects the whole body such as cancer or diabetes. Other times they share that they were sick for a long time or that they passed unexpectedly, suddenly like in a car accident or faster than they thought they would. 

One time I had a gentleman come through who spoke with his hands and in a thick Boston accent. I was shown a very small weapon. He kept repeating, “But I’m a good guy! I’m a good guy!” He showed me a pan of muffins. What could be more innocent than a muffin? He was a tough guy but presented himself as sweet (tiny weapon, muffins, his charming insistence). He cracked me up! During the course of the session the client validated that he was sweet and tough, did have a heavy Boston accent, he had a cache of weapons concealed in his home and he did like to cook.  She also shared that he did have some questionable dealings in life. Do I know what those dealings were exactly? No. And that leads me to the next question. 

Will you know all of my deep, dark secrets? 
No. Spirit often speaks in metaphors, symbols, etc. I tell clients that information conveyed will likely make more sense to them than to me. I often ask for clarification or further validations from spirit so that the client is sure it is their loved one. Usually spirit delivers. Sometimes they tell me, “It’s none of your business.” To me, that says spirit has given enough information for the client to understand the message. I do remember certain things, of course. But I truly do not know what it all means. As a medium, I am the vessel that receives the information, and then pours it out. It is not meant to be retained by me. 

Can you communicate with animals? 
Sometimes. That is not my specialty, but they have certainly come through on many occasions. One time I saw a cute little tan pup with disheveled fur. It was a male and he had his little pink tongue hanging out the side of his mouth. The impression was that he had come to a couple as an adult and he was very appreciative. He said, “Thank you for the care and compassion.” I said, “Do you mean love and compassion?” The pup said, “Well, love too, but thank you for the care and compassion.” He wanted it worded just so. The owners understood, as they had wrestled with the decisions made for end of life care. The decision was pup approved! 

Why would anyone want to communicate with spirit? 
Some people are looking for a sense of closure with their loved ones. Other people want validation that their loved one who has passed is still a part of their life and is aware of their activities. Some people find joy and peace in hearing little tidbits from their loved ones who have passed. 

What is better, in person readings, Zoom, email or phone? 
Whatever feels best to the participants! 

Is my loved one at peace? 
This is probably the most common question people ask during mediumship sessions. Spirits do maintain a good deal of their earthly personality. If your Nana was a menace in life, she is probably still a bit of a menace. If your Nana was a doll, she is probably still a sweetheart. Most spirits are at peace. They come with messages of love, hope and praise or advice. 

Other spirits need a bit more time to reconcile their earthly actions. I have seen spirits in what I can only describe as schools, learning environments where they learn lessons or skills. One lady was working with children who appeared to be at desks. She was learning patience and stability. Some spirits need to be on their own to process information independently. I have seen that look almost like a cell of a honeycomb. It looked peaceful, quiet and white. My understanding was that that particular soul had some real work to do and was not ready to be with other souls yet. 

Of course, spirit can convey information in many different ways to people. That is only what I have been privy to. 

How does a medium prepare for a session? 
Personally, I definitely don’t eat much prior to a session. I don’t drink a lot of anything either and I most certainly do not do this work after having alcohol. The medium must remain a clear channel for spirit communication. Grounding myself to mother earth and then connecting to spirit through meditation and gratitude are ways that I connect. When I know that a particular client is scheduled, I will keep them in my thoughts in the days leading up to their session. Spirit generally brings lots of information prior to a session and I take notes on what they convey to me so that I don’t forget! It is easy to forget the messages when they don’t come from you, the human. It is someone else’s thoughts, words, advice, beliefs etc. 

How does the medium feel when conducting a session? 
During the session I feel energized to connect with a person’s loved ones. When my energetic vibration is high I don’t generally have a sense of room temperature, hunger or thirst. After a session I have to bring my awareness back down to earth. I generally have a buzzy feeling in my head, like an overactive mind. It takes a few hours to get back to “normal” and then I am hungry and thirsty! 

I also feel the emotions of people’s loved ones. Often there will be an overwhelming sense of love the person in spirit has for those they left behind. Sometimes it is joy, hope, peace or even disappointment if the person did not conduct themself in an upstanding manner. One time I had a very angry grandmother come through. She was apparently a force to be reckoned with in life as well. She (the spirit) zoomed right up to my face and was yelling. I communicated with her calmly and she toned it down, but was so defiant. Over the years of reading for her loved ones, I can confidently say that this grandmother has calmed down a lot. Her time in spirit has given her a fresh perspective. She has even admitted some mistakes she made in relationships while on Earth and explained why she behaved in that way. It is always interesting when she comes through! 

Why do you do this type of work? 
I love it! It makes me happy. I am drawn to spirit work and spirit likes to work with me! The healing messages spirit brings to clients are incredible to witness. My guides talk fast and have a good sense of humor. They tell me, “If it’s not fun, don’t do it!” So as long as I am having fun I will keep doing it! 





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September: Prepare to Pivot

9/12/2024

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Greetings fellow Earth Angels, 
It is unbelievable to think we are embracing the last gasp of summer. Hopefully you enjoyed some of the magically lazy days we’ve been gifted by spirit over the past few months. Try to hang onto that carefree summer energy as long as you can. By the time consistent crisp air grips New England, those days will be a distant memory. 

I usually like to focus on just the month at hand, but spirit says the following information is for the fall season. Some of the things below might seem like good advice in general, and yes, BUT for some reason this information is extra important right now. You always have free will, but the following is what spirit advises. 

There is no rush. You will personally feel more stable and secure this fall if you take your time making all types of decisions. Hang onto extra cash. This is not a time to overcommit. Keep your options open. 

I’m getting a theme of buyers remorse if you do overcommit. Obviously we need to replace things no longer functioning (cars, appliances, technology) but I’d avoid buying the Cadillac option right now. It doesn’t mean you won’t get it eventually... but be modest for now and bide your time for best results. 

Think very carefully before agreeing to chair a committee, babysit your friend’s chihuahua, or offer to pick up coffee for the office on Friday’s. These things will likely lose their luster faster than a disco ball in daylight. 

Be prepared to pivot. You might think you want a sports car and then find out you're pregnant and now want an SUV instead. Or your mind is set on going for an open position at work and then a much better opportunity opens for you and it’s across the country.

     
There are lots of things in flux this season: Politics, Economy, Personal choices/ decisions. 
Spirit tells me “everything is a facade” as in it’s not what it seems. Try not to get too wrapped up in that which you can not control. For instance, don’t get too attached to or worked up over grocery, fuel or oil prices, mortgage rates, etc. These all feel very much in flux. Some people will become more passionate, lines will be drawn and keyboard warriors will be armed to the gills with their social media accounts. Before you engage with them ask yourself, “Is this productive?”
Everything is not wrapped up with a bow and nothing is final. That allows for options and opportunities to present themselves. 
Focus on what you can control in your own life and what brings you peace and joy or excitement.
     
This fall: Dream, Plan, Do. 
Execute when you feel very confident and ready. This is not a time to allow yourself to be pushed around. That will breed resentment (amplified). The dreaming feels vital. You might envision a tropical vacation you want to take in March. Research all inclusive resorts, watch people stroll the beach via the webcam BUT do not commit to that this far in advance because shifts are happening. Who knows, you might get invited to a wedding in Tahiti instead and whew! You’ll be very happy you didn’t spend your travel budget on your 8th trip to the Caribbean!
     
Why is the dreaming important? When we send positive or negative vibrations out into the universe, that energy is amplified. We all contribute to the collective consciousness or energy in our universe. When we dream about our passions, the energy is amplified in a very positive way. This is vital to the health of humanity now. So dream, and dream big!

     
​Spirit often speaks in metaphors. For this fall they show me two tectonic plates shifting. The literal moving of tectonic plates affects many. To me, this metaphor signals big shifts in our world. That is why spirit says dream, be prepared to pivot, avoid over commitment and give yourself an extra safety cushion of cash for your own peace of mind. Godspeed! 
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    I am a Spiritual Intuitive and Psychic Medium. Spirit is a constant fixture in my life, providing wisdom and guidance for everyone's highest and best. Each month I tune in specifically to learn about what is in store for the collective (everyone) during that period. Check out what spirit wants you to know so that you can shine your light! 

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