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*January 2025* A Year of Growth and Change

1/5/2025

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New year, new you? Probably! 

Spirit tells me this is a year of growth and change. Something on my inside is grimacing and tentatively saying, “Yaaaaaayyyy….?” But I know it needs to happen, for all of humanity, and it is going to whether we are onboard or not. So let’s jump onboard together and try to enjoy the ride, which it appears we will be on for a while. The change feels slow but sure. Small steps are OK right now. I do not feel the universe is signaling a sense of urgency, just a willingness to go with the flow. 

One thing we all definitely need to be aware of is that the energy for this year feels very slippery or in flux. It is a year of twists and turns. That is on purpose. The universe is switching things up so we have to pivot. Change promotes growth. Try to make decisions for your highest and best with the information at hand. That is all you can really do. Please realize that new information will likely come to light and therefore you will need to make choices, stand firm or change the plan. Examples: 
*Interest rates adjust and you change your mind on a home transaction
*Unexpected weather upends your vacation plans 
*You hope to buy a new car in two years but your engine dies tomorrow 

I suspect if you stand firm, things will become increasingly more uncomfortable. Going with the flow is the best course of action. Remember, you always have free will. 

Growth and change can be scary, like labor pains. But they can also be exciting, like the birth of a new baby. You might feel all of these things this year, and that is OK. It is what happens when growth is taking place. If you reflect on some big events in your life, you probably had a range of emotions. That is what this year feels like in a nutshell. A flexible mindset will be your best ally. 

If you haven’t already, this is definitely the time to rid yourself of old, unuseful baggage. We just are not going to have the time or energy to keep holding onto that which doesn’t serve us as the year progresses. Whether actual objects, grievances, or feelings of guilt, embarrassment, regret, etc. this is the time to release. If you are still holding onto these, it is likely because they were serving a purpose. You were learning from holding on and examining. Thank whatever it is for teaching you the lessons you needed, and let it go. Examples: 
*Thank you for teaching me what to truly value in a friend. I forgive your actions and therefore am no longer held back by negativity. 
*Thank you fear/ anxiety. I now realize that I am safe and protected. There is no reason for me to be afraid of XYZ any longer. 
*Thank you possessions for bringing me comfort. Memories/ photos will serve as a reminder of the peace you brought to my life. 

Other ways to facilitate cleansing/ clearing: 
*Laughing 
*Addressing health concerns 
*Spending time in nature 
*Being creative 
*Meditation
*Yoga
*Positive affirmations
*Take small steps (clear out 5 unuseful objects a day for a week)

Remember that you are releasing what no longer serves you now so that new energy may come in. If the universe has taught me anything, it is that it has plans for each of us whether we approve or not. Our response dictates how comfortable the path ahead will be. 

We are all here on Earth at this particular time because… we picked it! We chose to be here, to be a part of this great mind shift and energetic change that is transforming humankind. Humanity is learning to lead with their hearts, not just brawn or brain. So pause, take a breath, and treat yourself and others with care. We are all precious cargo on this journey!

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*December 2024* The Gifts of Peace and Solitude

1/5/2025

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While there was a bit of oomph to get back to business this fall, after a lazy summer, we find ourselves slowing down once again. 

Hibernating for the winter is not the worst idea. Laying low and embracing solitude feel like the most peaceful and pleasant options. 

It’s a good time to reflect on what brings you peace, joy and clarity. If situations, people, ideas, etc. feel mucky or murky, take a step back. Reevaluate. There is no need to rush in your decision making this month. 

October and November had themes of temper tantrums. Lucky you if you were able to avoid those, whether at home or in society. The good news is, spirit is not using the words “temper tantrums” to describe this winter. The key is “solitude”. So while there can certainly be chaos, that is less of a theme. Perhaps that is because we are all tired of it and therefore less phased by others’ drama. Hopefully through the recent tumult we have learned some strategies for forging ahead despite the drama. Now we learn to become masters of our own universe, our own destiny. We can not depend on others to be the sheppard of our own happiness or peace. And it is in this phase of our lives that we learn the power of peaceful solitude. 

Go within and ask yourself what is right for you. What works for those you are responsible for or doesn’t? And then, take steps to create the happiness in life that you so deserve. I once had the pleasure of taking a class with a very wise sociology professor named Henry. He was probably about 80 years old, and something he said to the class 20+ years ago has always stuck with me. He said that once we turn 18, no one is responsible for our happiness but ourselves. That feels very timely now. 

When can we expect this energy to significantly shift? That is not likely to occur until late April or early May. And even at that it’s not rainbows and sunshine. We’re actually in an interesting energetic climate for about the next 7 years (according to astrology). See the links to resources below for a variety of astrological information. 
Hilary Harley
Pam Gregory - YouTube
Sirius Joy

What can you do now? 
  • Pause/ reflect
  • Journal
  • Make plans/ get ducks in a row (but don’t pull the trigger yet unless necessary) 

If you would like to learn more about how areas of your life are most specifically affected by the energy we are experiencing, consider an angel reading. The angels always have guidance to help light your path. They are optimistic and a peaceful presence. Of course, loved ones in spirit often show up during readings as well (mediumship). They are more likely to give their own opinions, albeit in a loving way. Lately, lots of grandparents in spirit have been showing up during sessions. Loved ones usually come when they can relate to a situation you are experiencing and are ready to offer their wisdom. Because they can now see things from a bird’s eye view (what with being in the spirit world and all) they often surprise their loved one with the caring, empathetic messages they bring. 
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May you embrace the gift of solitude this winter offers. I wish you great peace, joy and love this holiday season!




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Gratitude and the Power of I AM

11/10/2024

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This November’s energy is like a cornucopia of abundance. We have mystery and wonder, endings and beginnings, growth, quiet time, moodiness and time to go within and reflect. It’s all brewing!

When things are going along smoothly and feel easy, you probably feel comfortable. However, that is not a time of major growth. That is OK. We all need opportunities to recuperate. When things feel difficult, that is when the growing and learning are taking place. It is likely that you and most people you know have been going through some challenges so far this fall. With the energy we have lined up, that is to be expected. That energy remains with us into the spring. 

Remember when you were in 7th grade and learning a new concept like algebra? If you were like me, your head probably hurt. After a while things began to click and the anxiety subsided. We are all experiencing that type of growth right now, but just on a grander scale. You can see it unfolding personally, professionally, and globally. 

It is not necessarily that you are to mend or resolve anything. It is alright to just be. Observe. See where the chips fall. Mysteries continue to abound. That is something we were introduced to in October, and that energy does continue throughout the fall. An example of this challenging energy playing out on a world stage can be seen with the United States presidential election. The energy of the universe is still very much in flux. We shall see what the next few months bring. 

October brought us some discomfort in the form of breakdowns and temper tantrums, almost like a toddler. They were sometimes irrational but definitely emotional (thanks Oct. 2 eclipse). Welp, November has a continuation of that in store. To me, it feels like temper tantrums tween/ teenage style. So think more defiant, stubborn, grudge holding, people trying to bend rules to get their own way. You know what this looks like. Much like last month, I encourage you to try to compromise, diffuse or simply walk away. Engaging will not be worth your energy. 
How can you use this wishy washy energy to your advantage?  

While the energy of the universe is in flux, spirit tells me it is important for us to create a sense of stability within our own lives. That means making or sticking to schedules, even if they are loose schedules. Make plans with friends or line up little getaways. It is important to have things that you look forward to, always, but especially at this time. This energy affords you the opportunity to pivot, make changes and get rid of that which no longer serves you. November also continues to be a great time to go within. Hibernate a bit. Consider your own thoughts and feelings first. Check in with your gut and and heart to see what they are telling you. That yields very valuable information. You can make room for new growth (and probably already have been). A simple activity is to list things that you are grateful for. Writing them down is powerful, but so is saying them aloud. Your voice has a vibration which is recognized by the universe. Either way, you are signaling positivity and you know, like attracts like. You’ll be surprised at how long your list becomes the more you practice gratitude.  

Examples: Thank you universe for… family, friends, health, food, shelter, comfort, warmth, sunshine, fresh air, ocean, pumpkins, love, freedom, safety, security…

Another simple way to attract positive energy is to sit in quiet, and make a list of I AM statements. That basically sends a message to the universe that you are like a magnet for positive energy and ready to receive more. The more you do this exercise the easier it will become. Try to be specific as spirit is not great at reading between the lines (they are quite literal). Write the statements as if they are all already true and happening, even if you only 2% believe it. 
Examples: 
I AM at peace. 
I AM beautiful. 
I AM intelligent. 
I AM supported in all ways by my spirit team.
I AM experiencing professional freedom. 
I AM financially wealthy.
I AM grateful for the abundance of love in my life.  

We all contribute to the collective consciousness. The more positivity we send into the universe the more positivity reflects back to Earth. That is good for everyone! If you find yourself going down a rabbit hole, you can say “Cancel, clear, delete.” Then restate that thought in a positive way. 

When I said that this November is like a “cornucopia of abundance”, I did not say that you would like everything being offered. However, you can pick and choose what you will tolerate or not. You can decide how you will react to situations. Most importantly, you can help chart this new terrain with your positive thinking and actions. As an older soul you will find yourself as the adult in the room. Your actions will have a trickle down effect on those around you. Try to see this time through children’s eyes, with wonder and excitement instead of apprehension. What is going to happen next? How will this adventure unfold? Let’s see! 

For more specifics on the astrology of what is happening at this time, check out what Pam Gregory has to say. She’s lovely! 
New Moon in Scorpio November 1st 2024

Finally, I’ll leave you with this song that caught my attention recently. It feels very timely. Jesus Jones Right Here, Right Now

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Serenity Now!

10/1/2024

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Mysteries will continue to deepen and unfold this month. We do not have all the information yet- we are not meant to. So just do the best you can with what you know. Spirit says this is a time for a little stress free TLC. Channel your inner Frank Costanza (Seinfeld) and do what brings you serenity. This might include limiting social media, turning off the news, not engaging in unproductive conversations, etc.
 
Why?

There is a lot of noise out there right now and you just don’t need to be there for it. Spirit says the most important thing right now is how you feel. It’s not about what you think in your logical mind, it’s how you feel. Before you get upset, check in with your solar plexus aka your gut. What is your stomach saying about this situation? Does it feel calm? That is a green light for you. Does your stomach feel sick over a situation? That is a red light. Pause and take stock. It is very important to do what feels good to you right now. Do not be swayed by other people’s beliefs, demands, insistence or even temper tantrums. Honor thyself. 

We have a New Moon Solar Eclipse happening on Wednesday, October 2nd at 2:46 PM EST. You might notice things quiet down at eclipse time. That includes nature/ animals. Eclipses are like little soul checkpoints. Are you on the correct path? Is this what you agreed to in heaven? If not, you will likely be course corrected. Around eclipse time (this week and next) it is likely that there will be some breakdowns. That could include relationship breakups, people quitting their jobs or being let go from jobs, people deciding they no longer have the time or energy for certain activities etc. When things break down, space is made for something new to come in. So please know that while the breakdown phase will likely feel uncomfortable, your soul is making way for better opportunities for you. 

In general there is an energy swirling around in the universe which is heightening sensitivities. You might notice certain foods starting to not agree with you. Pay attention to that and switch up your diet accordingly. Your body will thank you. People will be found overreacting to situations large and small (skim milk instead of cream? I SAID CREAM!!!!) Compromise or diffuse as best as you can. If all else fails, walk away. Engaging is not useful when people are in such a state. And you’ll be seeing it happen in public, at home, at work and globally on the news. Anyone can lash out. That’s easy. It takes a braver soul to react in a peaceful way. What will you choose? And remember, it is always your choice. 
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The silver lining is that this is a time that you are encouraged to envision a shiny new version of yourself, a personal upgrade and transformation if you will. This Libra season is a good time to embrace new beginnings. The energy says, “What brings harmony and beauty into your life? What are you ready to welcome in?” Set fresh intentions. Establish stronger boundaries so you can focus on what is most important to you. Pay special attention to connections and conversations. These are likely gateways for you. Libra is a people pleasing sign, so remember to consider yourself first to be sure you are in alignment with your highest and best. Finally, surround yourself with things that you deem beautiful. That will help spark your creativity and attract positive energy your way! 
 

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Get Started with Spirit

9/20/2024

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People often tell me that they feel drawn to explore spirit work, but they have no idea where to start. Go with your gut! If you feel drawn to a particular modality, look into it. There is no one right answer. When I first started really exploring the spirit world, I took every class, joined every meditation, attended every fair and read every book that interested me. I even went to a spiritualist church once or twice.  I had no idea where the path of spirituality would take me, but I was having fun. 

If you are looking for something concrete, you could try starting with reiki, a healing touch or EFT tapping session or course. Explore metaphysical stores and ask lots of questions. Usually in this line of work, I find people are more than willing to share their expertise. Practitioners do this work because it is their soul work and they truly enjoy it. I have never heard of someone I know saying that they do this healing, spiritual work to get rich quick. Much like being a teacher, nurse or clergyman, you probably will not get rich. We do it to help people. 

There used to be many more brick and mortar centers around that I could visit. Now many practitioners work online. Searching online is good as you can quickly narrow down what your interests are and there are many free resources, meditations, and reference materials to be found. The benefit to a local center is that you can find a group to share experiences with and bond with in person. Either way, it’s refreshing to have access to a community of like minded people. You will soon find that your ideas are not actually that strange. There will be a lot of, “OMG! You thought that too?” Many years ago, my journey started in earnest when I stumbled across a healing center in my hometown. They were advertising a table tipping event that night. I had no idea what that meant, but I was in! 

Table tipping was especially fascinating. It is a form of physical mediumship. People gently rest the tips of their fingers on the edge of a round pedestal table and receive messages when the table taps them out. The table literally moves. I could not believe this phenomenon. So I obviously did what any sane person would do. I waited until everyone got up halfway through the session to stretch, looked around to be sure no one was watching, and I ran my hands all along the table. Nothing. Not a string anywhere. Hmmm I thought. Someone was probably using their fingertips to push the table hard. I tried to lift the table. It was pretty heavy. Too heavy for someone to manipulate undetected with just their fingertips. Sigh. Maybe it’s real. After a short break everyone came back. I resumed my position, fingers lightly on the edge of the table. Strangely, my name was tapped out! My great-grandmother had arrived with her name, the correct spelling of my name (the name on my nametag was spelled incorrectly and I did not bother to tell the facilitator), and messages. No one at the table tipping session knew me, nonetheless my great-grandmother! I was hooked! 

Pure intentions are a must when working with spirit. You only want to work with the highest and best energies. Ask yourself, “Why do I want to do this work?” If the answer is because you feel ready and open or want to help others heal, that’s a good sign. If you are looking for peace, calm or reassurance that we are protected by the angelic realm and our loved ones in spirit, good again. If any of your answers involve fame, money or gaining inside information aka secrets, you will be sorely disappointed. Spirits of the highest and best order will not be interested in working with those associated with greed, self-serving purposes or any other nefarious activities. I am sure you are not that type of person though, because honestly, you would not be interested in this blog if you were and you definitely would not have read this far. 

You don’t need to know exactly where you are going with spirit or what will happen. Just go with the flow. If you are in the flow, things come on your path at the just right time. Things feel natural and “easy.” When you continue to run into roadblocks, challenges, extremely difficult people, etc. you are probably no longer on the right path. Maybe a certain direction used to be the right path for you, but things change. It is likely you mastered whatever lessons awaited you there and it is time to move on. Rest assured, you are in good company. Lots of people are feeling drawn to make changes in their lives right now. That includes professions, personal relationships, hobbies, you name it! Your destiny is whatever feels right at this time. Of course, spirit would never tell you to hurt yourself or anyone else! So listen to your gut and explore what makes you feel curious and excited. 

It is important that people are mindful of protecting themselves prior to engaging in spirit work. They also need to understand the materials they are using and how to properly handle them. You would not let someone use a table saw alone if they had never had any instruction. That would be dangerous. Items used for spiritual purposes must also be treated like tools, not toys. Many people have probably had or heard about an unsettling experience someone has had with a Ouija board. Ouija boards are not “bad” in and of themselves. They are tools for spirit communication. Tools need to be respected, treated with care and used with positive intentions. Unfortunately Ouija boards were treated as a party game by adolescents for many years (myself included). Without protection in place, those children were basically opening the door for any and every energy to stroll through. You would not go to bed at night, unlock the front door, leave all the lights on and post a sign outside that says, “Come on in and help yourself!” That is basically what people are doing when they try spirit communication without protection in place. Your soul is your inner house. Protect it. I strongly advise only working with materials for spirit communication or healing work if you are with a person who has been properly trained or have been trained by a reputable practitioner yourself. At the very least, the simplest thing you can do to protect yourself is say, “Archangel Michael, protect me now!” That can be done anytime you feel in need of protection, in your head or aloud. 

Truth be told, I still don’t know where the path of spirituality will take me in the future. When I feel inspired, I pay attention and act accordingly. Right now, spirit gifts me a different class each month which is perfect for beginners to attend. They give me ideas for blogs and bring the just right people on my path. I feel best when doing spirit work and that is how I know it is right for me. I’ll continue to go with the flow. It’s not for everyone, and I totally respect that. But if you are ready, the journey awaits! 

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Mediumship FAQ

9/19/2024

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How do you connect with spirit? 
Humans live in a very dense, physical world. The spirit world is much lighter, operating at a higher vibration. In order to connect and communicate, I have to raise my energy up with pure intentions and spirit has to bring their energy down. We basically meet in the middle of the earth plane and the spirit world. I liken it to a hummingbird at a feeder. It takes an incredible amount of energy for a hummingbird to hover at a feeder and do all of that flying. It takes an incredible amount of energy for spirit to bring their energy down and for me to bring my energy up in order to maintain a connection. The hummingbird can not maintain that connection forever, and neither can a medium. The hope is that we can connect long enough for spirit to impart their wisdom. 

Who from the spirit world is communicating? 
Guardian angels who are thought to have not walked the earth. They will not tell you what you should or should not do. They give options and choices along the way. 
Spirit guides who are thought to have walked the earth and do know what it is like to live in this very dense, physical world we are in. They will share their opinion! Your loved ones who have passed fit in this category, although you can of course consider them guardian angels if that brings you comfort or peace. 

Is this safe?  
It is safe to practice/ participate in mediumship sessions if you have pure intentions and are trained or working with or under the guidance of a trained medium. Archangel Michael protects me and all of my clients with his sword of light. All unuseful energy is released and we are filled with the love and light of the Holy Spirit. Only messages for a person’s highest and best are allowed to pass through. Archangel Michael doesn’t play around! 

How do sessions begin? 
Sessions begin with a brief opening prayer. I ask for protection of the highest order, for our heart energies to connect and for loved ones in spirit who wish to communicate to step forward. 

How are sessions closed?
Sessions end with a brief closing prayer of gratitude for the protection and for the spirits and messages that came through. 

How are you receiving information?
Typically I use 3 of the “clairs" during readings. 

Claircognizance- clear knowing
Ideas/ information pops into my head. I will just know something. Spirit conveys messages very quickly in this way.

Clairsentience- clear feeling
I will feel how a client or a loved one on the other side feels. I might feel uncomfortable, excited, joy, sadness, anxiety, pain, peace, etc. Emotions and physical sensations come through. 

Clairvoyance- clear seeing
Images, scenes, symbols, etc appear in my third eye chakra. 
 
Can you guarantee a connection with my loved one? 
No. No one can guarantee a connection with your loved one, nevermind the particular one you would like to communicate with. Humans are not the boss of spirit. I can not make your dad get on the horn with me in life, and I can not make him speak with me after his passing. We all have free will. Another factor is that spirit might not find me to be their cup of tea. (Hard to believe, but it’s true!) Just like in life, people are drawn to certain folks, certain personalities. This translates to the spirit world too.  

What type of messages come through? 
Spirit’s job is to bring messages for your highest and best. That means what you need. Spirit is not here to just bring a client whatever they want to hear. Messages will help the person shine their light at this point in their life. If a message would hinder a person’s progress in this lifetime, that information will not be conveyed. 

Example: You are going to an outdoor concert and the weather looks fine. In the middle of the set a crazy thunderstorm appears and people start running for cover. You end up under a tent with a bunch of random people. You recognize a childhood friend you had lost touch with 30 years ago and pick up right where you left off. 

Well, if you knew there would be bad weather, you might have declined to go. Therefore you never would have rekindled that relationship. It was meant for you to both be in the same place at the same time. Spirit will go to great lengths to make sure people who are meant to be together in this lifetime make a connection. That is why spirit can not reveal all. 

If spirit is so smart, what are tonight’s winning lottery numbers? 
Don’t we all want to know?! Remember, spirit will not reveal things that will hinder a person’s progress in this lifetime. Some people dream of the winning lottery numbers, play them, and win! It was meant to be. Having that money was a part of their path, their destiny in this lifetime. Maybe they are learning to navigate relationships or how to be responsible with resources. Winning that money will help them learn the lessons that they came here to get clear on. If landing a windfall of money will hinder your progress, it’s not happening. 

What signs and symbols does spirit communicate with? 
Spirit is ingenious and continues to blow me away! A lot of times, reading for people is like playing charades or Pictionary. They use a lot of metaphors, different vocabulary and visual symbols. My job is to tell what I receive, not necessarily try to decode. Usually when sitting across from a client, an energy appearing on the client’s right hand side (my left) that indicates a member of the paternal side. Spirits appearing on the left (my right) indicate a spirit associated with the maternal side. Spirit energy in front of the client is usually a living person’s energy. Energy directly behind the client can indicate a friend of the family. Of course, just like in life, we don’t all follow the “rules” and sometimes the spirit is a bit confused about where they go. Therefore I can not always depend on those positions to tell the whole story. 

If my loved one doesn’t communicate, then what happens during my session? 
In my experience, spirit in general always has something to say. You might receive messages from angels, spirit guides, or someone you hadn’t even considered! Sometimes the energy of people’s living loved ones comes through. For example, I once had a client whose mother came through. The mother validated who she was by giving a physical description of herself and shared her medical diagnosis. The message was a lot about how she loves her daughter, she is so proud of her and how much she loves having the daughter in her life. The mother is still alive and the client said that she believes those things but that her mother would never say that to her in life. I believe that is why her energy stepped forward to convey that to the daughter. Some of your energy remains in the spirit world, always. We do not take 100% of our energy into each lifetime. That way we always have a connection to the spirit world and that is how our soul can communicate even when we are alive on earth. 

What happens if a person is adopted? Who is their family? 
Spirit operates via energy, not blood. If a person is part of your family, they are considered your family regardless of the parentage here on earth. In that same vein, step-children are considered children, no less than anyone’s biological child in the eyes of spirit. 

What types of validations does spirit bring? 
I usually get a lot of personalities, body parts, significant items or indications of how the person passed. If someone was a real jokester or character in life, they seem to like working with my energy. Lots of tough cookies and sweethearts come through as well. Your loved ones can show themselves how they felt best in this lifetime or how they would like to be portrayed. Your grandma might come through as her 25 year old self, even though she was 80 when she passed. Someone overweight much of their life might portray themself as a fit football player aka how they felt best which was in their teen years. 

Body parts I am shown usually have significance as they are particular to the person or unusual. Some include certain wisps of hair and the color, lots of hands and feet, arthritic body parts, certain markings, tattoos, height, body structure, teeth, eye color, etc. One time I described what a woman’s father looked like as far as hair, body type, a certain plaid shirt, personality, etc. When the session was complete, the woman took a photo out of her purse. It was an image of her dad wearing the exact shirt described! I later found out that she was so stunned (as a skeptic) that she shook all the way down the staircase after her session.  

Items I have been shown include specific lockets, lots of watches, shoes, doilies, bureaus, favorite chairs/couches, vehicles, yards, land, dust, work clothes, work environments, etc. During one session a woman pulled the exact locket described out of her pocket. We were both stunned. That usually does not happen. Usually I will be shown an item such as a locket in general and it is a symbol for a locket the person had, but it’s not usually the exact description. 

Spirit can share how they passed. I might feel short of breath, a pain in my side, a headache or see swirling in the blood for something that affects the whole body such as cancer or diabetes. Other times they share that they were sick for a long time or that they passed unexpectedly, suddenly like in a car accident or faster than they thought they would. 

One time I had a gentleman come through who spoke with his hands and in a thick Boston accent. I was shown a very small weapon. He kept repeating, “But I’m a good guy! I’m a good guy!” He showed me a pan of muffins. What could be more innocent than a muffin? He was a tough guy but presented himself as sweet (tiny weapon, muffins, his charming insistence). He cracked me up! During the course of the session the client validated that he was sweet and tough, did have a heavy Boston accent, he had a cache of weapons concealed in his home and he did like to cook.  She also shared that he did have some questionable dealings in life. Do I know what those dealings were exactly? No. And that leads me to the next question. 

Will you know all of my deep, dark secrets? 
No. Spirit often speaks in metaphors, symbols, etc. I tell clients that information conveyed will likely make more sense to them than to me. I often ask for clarification or further validations from spirit so that the client is sure it is their loved one. Usually spirit delivers. Sometimes they tell me, “It’s none of your business.” To me, that says spirit has given enough information for the client to understand the message. I do remember certain things, of course. But I truly do not know what it all means. As a medium, I am the vessel that receives the information, and then pours it out. It is not meant to be retained by me. 

Can you communicate with animals? 
Sometimes. That is not my specialty, but they have certainly come through on many occasions. One time I saw a cute little tan pup with disheveled fur. It was a male and he had his little pink tongue hanging out the side of his mouth. The impression was that he had come to a couple as an adult and he was very appreciative. He said, “Thank you for the care and compassion.” I said, “Do you mean love and compassion?” The pup said, “Well, love too, but thank you for the care and compassion.” He wanted it worded just so. The owners understood, as they had wrestled with the decisions made for end of life care. The decision was pup approved! 

Why would anyone want to communicate with spirit? 
Some people are looking for a sense of closure with their loved ones. Other people want validation that their loved one who has passed is still a part of their life and is aware of their activities. Some people find joy and peace in hearing little tidbits from their loved ones who have passed. 

What is better, in person readings, Zoom, email or phone? 
Whatever feels best to the participants! 

Is my loved one at peace? 
This is probably the most common question people ask during mediumship sessions. Spirits do maintain a good deal of their earthly personality. If your Nana was a menace in life, she is probably still a bit of a menace. If your Nana was a doll, she is probably still a sweetheart. Most spirits are at peace. They come with messages of love, hope and praise or advice. 

Other spirits need a bit more time to reconcile their earthly actions. I have seen spirits in what I can only describe as schools, learning environments where they learn lessons or skills. One lady was working with children who appeared to be at desks. She was learning patience and stability. Some spirits need to be on their own to process information independently. I have seen that look almost like a cell of a honeycomb. It looked peaceful, quiet and white. My understanding was that that particular soul had some real work to do and was not ready to be with other souls yet. 

Of course, spirit can convey information in many different ways to people. That is only what I have been privy to. 

How does a medium prepare for a session? 
Personally, I definitely don’t eat much prior to a session. I don’t drink a lot of anything either and I most certainly do not do this work after having alcohol. The medium must remain a clear channel for spirit communication. Grounding myself to mother earth and then connecting to spirit through meditation and gratitude are ways that I connect. When I know that a particular client is scheduled, I will keep them in my thoughts in the days leading up to their session. Spirit generally brings lots of information prior to a session and I take notes on what they convey to me so that I don’t forget! It is easy to forget the messages when they don’t come from you, the human. It is someone else’s thoughts, words, advice, beliefs etc. 

How does the medium feel when conducting a session? 
During the session I feel energized to connect with a person’s loved ones. When my energetic vibration is high I don’t generally have a sense of room temperature, hunger or thirst. After a session I have to bring my awareness back down to earth. I generally have a buzzy feeling in my head, like an overactive mind. It takes a few hours to get back to “normal” and then I am hungry and thirsty! 

I also feel the emotions of people’s loved ones. Often there will be an overwhelming sense of love the person in spirit has for those they left behind. Sometimes it is joy, hope, peace or even disappointment if the person did not conduct themself in an upstanding manner. One time I had a very angry grandmother come through. She was apparently a force to be reckoned with in life as well. She (the spirit) zoomed right up to my face and was yelling. I communicated with her calmly and she toned it down, but was so defiant. Over the years of reading for her loved ones, I can confidently say that this grandmother has calmed down a lot. Her time in spirit has given her a fresh perspective. She has even admitted some mistakes she made in relationships while on Earth and explained why she behaved in that way. It is always interesting when she comes through! 

Why do you do this type of work? 
I love it! It makes me happy. I am drawn to spirit work and spirit likes to work with me! The healing messages spirit brings to clients are incredible to witness. My guides talk fast and have a good sense of humor. They tell me, “If it’s not fun, don’t do it!” So as long as I am having fun I will keep doing it! 





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September: Prepare to Pivot

9/12/2024

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Greetings fellow Earth Angels, 
It is unbelievable to think we are embracing the last gasp of summer. Hopefully you enjoyed some of the magically lazy days we’ve been gifted by spirit over the past few months. Try to hang onto that carefree summer energy as long as you can. By the time consistent crisp air grips New England, those days will be a distant memory. 

I usually like to focus on just the month at hand, but spirit says the following information is for the fall season. Some of the things below might seem like good advice in general, and yes, BUT for some reason this information is extra important right now. You always have free will, but the following is what spirit advises. 
There is no rush. You will personally feel more stable and secure this fall if you take your time making all types of decisions. Hang onto extra cash. This is not a time to overcommit. Keep your options open. 

I’m getting a theme of buyers remorse if you do overcommit. Obviously we need to replace things no longer functioning (cars, appliances, technology) but I’d avoid buying the Cadillac option right now. It doesn’t mean you won’t get it eventually... but be modest for now and bide your time for best results. 
Think very carefully before agreeing to chair a committee, babysit your friend’s chihuahua, or offer to pick up coffee for the office on Friday’s. These things will likely lose their luster faster than a disco ball in daylight. 

Be prepared to pivot. You might think you want a sports car and then find out you're pregnant and now want an SUV instead. Or your mind is set on going for an open position at work and then a much better opportunity opens for you and it’s across the country.
     
There are lots of things in flux this season: Politics, Economy, Personal choices/ decisions. Spirit tells me “everything is a facade” as in it’s not what it seems. Try not to get too wrapped up in that which you can not control. For instance, don’t get too attached to or worked up over grocery, fuel or oil prices, mortgage rates, etc. These all feel very much in flux. Some people will become more passionate, lines will be drawn and keyboard warriors will be armed to the gills with their social media accounts. Before you engage with them ask yourself, “Is this productive?”
Everything is not wrapped up with a bow and nothing is final. That allows for options and opportunities to present themselves. Focus on what you can control in your own life and what brings you peace and joy or excitement.
     
This fall: Dream, Plan, Do. Execute when you feel very confident and ready. This is not a time to allow yourself to be pushed around. That will breed resentment (amplified). The dreaming feels vital. You might envision a tropical vacation you want to take in March. Research all inclusive resorts, watch people stroll the beach via the webcam BUT do not commit to that this far in advance because shifts are happening. Who knows, you might get invited to a wedding in Tahiti instead and whew! You’ll be very happy you didn’t spend your travel budget on your 8th trip to the Caribbean!
     
Why is the dreaming important? When we send positive or negative vibrations out into the universe, that energy is amplified. We all contribute to the collective consciousness or energy in our universe. When we dream about our passions, the energy is amplified in a very positive way. This is vital to the health of humanity now. So dream, and dream big!
     
​Spirit often speaks in metaphors. For this fall they show me two tectonic plates shifting. The literal moving of tectonic plates affects many. To me, this metaphor signals big shifts in our world. That is why spirit says dream, be prepared to pivot, avoid over commitment and give yourself an extra safety cushion of cash for your own peace of mind. Godspeed! 
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    I am a Spiritual Intuitive and Psychic Medium. Spirit is a constant fixture in my life, providing wisdom and guidance for everyone's highest and best. Each month I tune in specifically to learn about what is in store for the collective (everyone) during that period. Check out what spirit wants you to know so that you can shine your light! 

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